The strength of a family unit

May 6th, 2008

The children and the parents constitute a family unit. The strength of a family lies in the ties and bondage of love that bind all the members of the family together and feel for each other. It’s important to retain this structure in the world that is getting more volatile and chaotic.

Having a peaceful family life experience and supportive parents who protect them certainly help children to grow into responsible and confident adult with well built personalities and strong character who can bear the rough and tough of life.

Children don’t  always remember how many expensive toys you bought them or how many Las Vegas Shows they went to during their last vacation trip to Las Vegas, but they would remember you took time to be together with them and how fun it was to do family together.

Children are innocent and immature, but they are pretty sensitive towards the lack of attention or parents who practice favoritism. As parents, it’s our responsibilities to pay equal attention to all of our children, without discrimination and partiality.

When they are younger, it’s the best time to train them with chores and responsibilities as they usually are eager to help. So do not push them away nor discourage them when they want to help. Help them build basic life skills and they will become more confident once they master them. If your children feel that you are genuinely interested in their lives they will actually feel at home with you and will be more cooperative. They will start talking to you. They will share themselves with you.

Do you know of anyone who doesn’t like chocolates?

May 6th, 2008

My niece announced excitedly to her grandparents that her teachers are bringing them to visit a factory next week. Hey, children today have all the luck. Where did we go when we were little children? My teacher took us on a field trip to a shitty little farm where we saw cows and stepped in their shit. Oh my god, I think I hate my childhood. : - )

I jokingly asked her whether her aunt can go along and she didn’t have to think twice before replying “No, it’s for children only!”

Not that I really have time to join the school children to visit to a chocolate factory. But, then, my mind swirled in a vortex of endless free-flowing, creamy Chocolate syrup as it drifted into caramel-flavored, candy-coated, sugar encrusted fantasy factory, whereupon an array of beautifully wrapped chocolate.

Some people believe eating chocolates can cause pimples. I have no idea whether it’s a myth or a truth. But guess you can always use pimple creams to get rid of the pimples if the myth is true! :-)

Should I return to work?

May 5th, 2008

if you just recently had a baby, congratulations! The arrival of a new child will be a fun, adventurous, and memorable experience. Although work may be the farthest thing from your mind right now, it is something that you may want to take the time to think about. After having a baby, a large number of women wonder whether or not they should return to work.

When it comes to determining if you should return to work after having a baby, there are a number of important factors that you will want to take into consideration. Do you have a lot of consumer debts or getting calls from debt collection agencies. For many women, money is an issue. How is your current financial situation? Before your baby was born, were you relying on one or two incomes? This simple question may play an important role in your decision.

Although money may be an issue for you, when determining if you should return to work after the birth of your child, it is also important to examine the money that you may save. As a parent, you likely wouldn’t send your child to just any daycare center. Unfortunately, daycare providers that come highly rated and recommend often have high fees.

After this comparison, you may find that staying home with your child, after their birth, is actually a cost effective solution. : - )